Get the Guy: the New York Times bestselling guide to changing your mindset and getting results from YouTube and Instagram sensation, relationship coach Matthew Hussey

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One of the big mistakes that a lot of my clients have made before working with me is focusing on getting a man’s attention while sacrificing alignment.

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BONUS: How to Know if He Is Worth Dating – In 5 Minutes How to pre-screen your dates (so you can STOP wasting your time) by asking these 4 revealing questions on a 5-minute phone call. If he fails But if you really want a guy to like you, you need to be open and honest with him, about the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of you. Remember, you’re not trying to get him to think a certain way, you’re trying to get him to feel a certain way. It should help build a stronger connection, and make him feel more comfortable in sharing things with you in return.You see, relationships can be rather confusing and frustrating. Sometimes you’ve hit a wall and you really don’t know what to do next. The high-value woman is self-assured and independent, but she also has the knowledge and self-awareness to recognize (and gladly admit) that there are some things that only a man, her man, can bring to the table. Of course, she might hang out with her friends in a pub and chant, “We don’t need men!” But in reality, she doesn’t think it’s true. Try to join different hobby clubs, attend more events, be friendly to people you meet in different locations and accept invitations that you may not ordinarily accept from people you’re not close to.

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Someone who’s in touch with their emotions and able to connect with another person will also be someone who appreciates a compliment, or a thoughtful gift, or an offer to pay for dinner. Now, you can’t trigger his hero instinct just giving him admiration next time you see him. Men don’t like receiving participation awards for showing up. Trust me.

But if you’re looking for some practical strategies that actually work, then you’ll love this post. I believe a big reason why is that he comes from men’s dating space, and he brings a lot of ideas from there that were not previously present in the women’s dating literature.