You're That Bitch: & Other Cute Lessons about Being Unapologetically Yourself

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When did he realize that he’s already “that b*tch”? Bretman says there’s no specific moment but he sometimes still finds it hard to wrap his head around the fact that he’s already made a name for himself. “Like oh my God. I’m in the Philippines promoting my book. I’m really that b*tch,” he says. When did he realize that he’s already “that b*tch”?“Like oh my God. I’m in the Philippines promoting my book. I’m really that b*tch,” he says. Writing the memoir

When the bullying at school and home got so bad,” he writes, “I tried to suffocate myself with a blanket again in my bed before school.”

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I think it’s chapter 11 and it was talking about how I lost my virginity in Disneyland,” says Bretman when asked what he considers to be the highlight of the book. Well, I always say that it’s a love letter to my first quarter of life, and obviously, my identity being Filipino, so it is truly a love letter to that little boy who dreamt in Cagayan. So yeah, it is a love letter to the Philippines and to the representation of it.

Young queer femmes taking agency over their own image was new and disruptive, and the content creation industry struggled to catch up. “I went through two not-great manager situationships,” he writes. “[One] called me a ‘spectacle’ to my face (and not in a cute way), and sniffed that … my brand would never live on or amount to anything. Hearing those things from someone who was supposed to lead me in my career hurt and had a lasting impact on how I saw myself.” You’ve really branched out everywhere in entertainment. Is there anything you’re looking to pursue next? From the funniest and undeniably cutest person on the internet, this is a book for the weirdos and for the bad bitches . . . this book is for you!" The Ilocano is a bret, este breath of fresh air–funny and fierce, charming and sweet, and never not entertaining. His authenticity and bubbly personality always shine thru. Which is why from doing the humble beauty tutorials that started his vlogging career, he’s now doing everything and is a sought-after influencer and certified celebrity. Filled with the sort of self-reflection and heartfelt self-help of someone who has processed the challenges of achieving digital fame." — InStyle MagazineI was in my custom Libiran for prom, like, who gets to say that? He even made me two options, I had a cropped one and then a cape version. My prom pics were amazing. I’m very proud of being LGBTQ+ and Filipino, so it’s an honor to be a pretty face for both underrepresented communities. Plus, Asian Americans and Asian immigrants are increasingly facing hate and violence, so I’m passionate about helping create more positive visibility for us— especially for brown Asians—I n entertainment, beauty and fashion. I want to make all of my communities proud— native, immigrant, Filipino, Hawaii. Bretman was simultaneously unapologetic in who he is and also very aware of the ways he has caused harm and must apologize for past behaviors and continue to learn. I think many authors like to "play God" with their books and make sure their perspective of life is the ONLY way to live and paint themselves as the best and most special human on Earth. I love Bretman's take on growth and reflection and ways he also tied in so many aspects of LGBTQ+, Filipino/SE Asian, and Asian American identities. Girl, it’s my third day out here! Only my third day out here, and I’m jet-lagged, but I’m pushing through! The coffee here is so good. And the hotel has this really cute gym. Yeah, it’s been cute actually. I love my stay!

The content of "You're That Bitch" is thought-provoking and deeply relatable. It covers a wide range of topics, including self-discovery, relationships, career aspirations, and personal growth. Each chapter delves into different aspects of life and provides valuable insights, practical advice, and relatable anecdotes. The author's ability to convey complex ideas in a concise and accessible manner is commendable, making this book suitable for readers at any stage of their journey.In addition to the powerful content, "You're That Bitch" is beautifully presented. The book design, cover art, and overall aesthetics enhance the reading experience, making it visually pleasing. It's clear that attention was given to every detail, ensuring a well-rounded and immersive journey for readers. Girl, because I know myself. I'm very self-aware. I know that if I move to L.A., I’ll be fighting every b*tch there. It’s better that I stay away from people, honestly. It’s better for them. I’m doing them a favor,” he says, maybe half-joking. Well, obviously, I feel like a non-binary person, and I’ve always felt this way about fashion, even when I was shopping in a swap meet or the Goodwill or, like, the thrift store. Regardless of where I’m shopping I never look at the label, and by label I mean if for a woman or a man. An unapologetically queer version of the sanitized beigeness of stories like Love, Simon. Compelling...in the relatively small pantheon of queer-of-color coming-of-age memoirs, it’s a unique perspective on emerging as a young public gay figure." I’ve been obsessed with Rhuigi [Villaseñor], he’s killing it. But my first introduction to Filipino [designers] was actually Francis Libiran! He designed my prom outfit when I was a junior in high school.